#egg_irl

[nenya_kanadka]

That feel when you realize that being obsessed for several years with the idea of Minbari having three sexes might possibly have been related to feelings you also have about your own gender.


Me: I don't really self-insert much.
Also me: *takes canonical earnest nerd, makes them nonbinary, ships them like hell with my female fave, writes a billion fic*

Heh.

Comments

[alexseanchai]

💛🤍💜🖤

[sovay]

That feel when you realize that being obsessed for several years with the idea of Minbari having three sexes might possibly have been related to feelings you also have about your own gender.

I mean, everything else in their society comes in threes, I'm here for it.

[beatrice_otter]

Well, as someone who is firmly cisgender, I absolutely LOVE your Minbari worldbuilding and the stories that use it, and I'm glad it was useful to work through your own gender.🤗

[gaslightgallows]

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[kore]

the idea of Minbari having three sexes

I like!

[rivendellrose]

These things happen sometimes. *pats and hugs* It's always exciting to look at a long history of your fanfic / writing and go "ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, I guess that makes sense."

And, from a fanon point of view, there's also the "it just makes sense!" angle. XD

[settiai]

... that actually explains a lot about why I fell in love with the idea so much, now that you mention it.

[nenya_kanadka]

💜🖤💚😍

[nenya_kanadka]

Canon triad marriage, FFS! 😆

Not that you can't have that with two genders, but seriously...

[sovay]

Canon triad marriage, FFS!

Link already?

[nenya_kanadka]

Aw thank you! I really love it as a worldbuilding concept, and I think I would anyway, it's just that I'm having another one of those "Ahaha that explains that then!" moments now too. 😆

It is always nice to know that one's idfic also works for other people. :D

[nenya_kanadka]

💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[nenya_kanadka]

It made so much sense from the moment rivendellrose and gaslightgallows suggested it that I honestly usually forget it isn't technically canon.

(Marriage in threes being strongly approved of in Minbari culture IS, though...)

[nenya_kanadka]

Exactly! 😆

And I suppose I shouldn't be surprised. John/Delenn/Lennier was already instrumental in me coming to terms with the fact that I'm poly.

Delenn is wise and Knows All. Clearly.

[kore]

Everything else is indeed in threes! And even after they redid her makeup post-pilot, Delenn looked pretty nonbinary to me. It just really does seem like a missing piece of canon.

[kore]

Didn't Mira say in an interview that Delenn was like the Queen of the Universe? Totally!

[nenya_kanadka]

Right?

Like, it is a great worldbuilding detail, so obviously plausible! But also I just found it so riveting and so satisfying to think about. And then so annoyed that I couldn't be one... 😜

(Especially the part where the not-male-or-female people have their own unique body plan that exists distinct from cis men and cis women (there'd be cis third-sex people, so to speak), and where this has been true from time immemorial and it's not even slightly an issue whether they and their gender are real or not. I might describe their biology differently now if I were writing them, but that also doesn't matter nearly as much to me as that they get to have a body that was never AMAB or AFAB.)

((And you would get Ft3 or 3tM Minbari, too, honestly! But I just, the idea of just casually being cis-something-not-female-or-male charmed the fuck out of me.))

(I always also wanted to write more about the experience of being a third-gender, third-sex Minbari and then going among other races and being gendered male or female according to binary cultures' assumptions. Which, again, ohai eggself? Lol.)

❤❤❤❤❤

[alexseanchai]

is that the genderqueer flag and you just don't have white heart emoji, or am I just confused?

[alexseanchai]

*intrigued*

[schneefink]

it isn't technically canon.
I would have completely believed you if you'd said it is, it does make a lot of sense.

[chanter1944]

Seconded! I am all out of eloquence, but seconded. :)

[gaslightgallows]

I'm so pleased that the concept has appealed to so many people. It felt very niche at the time! ...9 years ago. D: XD

[nenya_kanadka]

😍😍😍

[nenya_kanadka]

You are correct! 😆💕💕